Parenting Blog (“P.E.T. Connection”)

August 12th, 2026

How to Avoid the Parrot Trap

By: Michelle Adams

1. Oliver (child): “I never get a chance to get the ball when the bigger kids are playing.” Parroting parent: […]

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July 23rd, 2026

Listening: “Why” and “When” Are Equally Important

By: Linda Adams

When your child “Owns a Problem” or is experiencing strong feelings and Basic Listening is not enough, then the skill […]

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May 6th, 2026

Do You Practice What We Preach?

By: Linda Adams

While we here in the U.S.A. live in a political democracy, most of us were not brought up in democratic […]

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April 13th, 2026

Okay Parents, Time to Test Your Active Listening Skills

By: Michelle Adams

Ready? Excellent! The following is from an actual conversation between parent and child. Instructions: What you will need: paper and […]

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March 9th, 2026

In Honor of St. Patrick’s Day – A Limerick for Parents

By: Linda Adams

It’s now a well-known fact That how we as parents act What we do, what we say To our kids […]

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February 5th, 2026

Are We Creating a New Species of Children?

By: Linda Adams

“How we treat children is far more critical to the kind of society we have than most people think…if we […]

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January 8th, 2026

How You Parent Impacts…Everything (no pressure, right?!)

By: Dr. Thomas Gordon

(By Dr. Thomas Gordon – from his book, Teaching Children Self-Discipline) Many parents who have learned how to employ P.E.T. […]

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December 4th, 2025

Three Reasons to Active Listen to Your Child

By: Anthony Zener

1. Relieves “emotional flooding”.  When your child is experiencing a problem, feeling can overwhelm thoughts. A child can become emotionally […]

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November 5th, 2025

P.E.T. Isn’t a Panacea, but…

By: Dr. Thomas Gordon

While research studies strongly support that democratic families do provide an interpersonal climate conducive to healthy, creative, and fully functioning […]

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October 15th, 2025

A Deep Dive Into Some of the “Myth-teries” of Parenting

By: Dr. Thomas Gordon

Each parent has a unique and different “window” for viewing the behavior of another person.  Two parents may have very […]

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