Parent Training Blog

July 11th, 2024

How Not to Lose Your Cool This Summer

By: Lance Johnson

I learned about Confrontive I-Messages in P.E.T. and here’s a real-life story of my experience confronting one of my sons. […]

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June 10th, 2024

Don’t Use That Active Listening Stuff on Me

By: Dr. Thomas Gordon

Unsuccessful experiences of parents who first try Active Listening often occur because parents use it at inappropriate times. As with […]

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May 1st, 2024

What Do We Mean by Three Kinds Of Time?

By: Steve Emmons

Many times, the cause of problems and conflicts in families is an imbalance in the way that parents and children […]

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April 3rd, 2024

Is There a Stranger Living With You?

By: Anthony Zener

“There’s one thing you can start doing right now that will change how you communicate with any young human: Remember […]

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March 14th, 2024

How Clear ARE You with Your Kids?

By: Anthony Zener

If you’ve read or taken P.E.T. surely you know about the Confrontive I-Message–a skill to use when your child’s behavior […]

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February 7th, 2024

What Is Your Love Language?

By: Michelle Adams

There are many ways to show your partner, family or friend that you love them—whether it’s surprising your bestie with […]

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parenting communication

January 11th, 2024

You Are Not a “Bad” Parent Because You Use Roadblocks

By: Dr. Thomas Gordon

Throughout our lives, we have learned a variety of ways to help our kids when they have strong feelings, thoughts […]

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December 4th, 2023

Do You Like Yourself As a Parent?

By: Dr. Thomas Gordon

Studies show that a direct relationship exists between how accepting people are of others and how accepting they are of […]

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November 9th, 2023

How to Avoid Sibling Mutant Mayhem with P.E.T.

By: Lance Johnson

…Or in other words, how to mediate conflicts between siblings. Our two boys (ages 8 and 6) currently enjoy everything […]

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October 10th, 2023

Bring More Peace to Your Parenting with These 15 Principles

By: Dr. Thomas Gordon

Family life would be infinitely less exasperating for parents, and more enjoyable for children as well, if parents would accept […]

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